The reason why I chose the gay community is because nobody really knows when you're just on the outside looking in. Just like everything else in this world. To some, it looks like a same sex relationship but there is so much more to that. Sometimes you have to experience things first had or be close to somebody in your life in order to fully understand ones lifestyle. I know that there are a lot of people that do not really understand the problems and complications that come along with being bi-sexual or a lesbian from peers and family members.